In his mind, this is just part of his sexual journey, and separate from how he feels about you, but I understand your discomfort.

They never miss an opportunity to let people know how hard they're working, and it's important to them that they appear to be harried.

I treat my co-workers politely and warmly at work. But many of them don't like me. I don't know why and feel distressed.

What are you looking so distressed about?

I feel so upset these days.