| 1 | Courts are in similar straits all over the country. | |
| 2 | Both Jane and Elizabeth felt uncomfortable, and sympathized with each other. | |
| 3 | And all those souls we have lost before you. | |
| 4 | Seek out others who were once in your current situation. Ask for their help. | |
| 5 | Dear Frazzled: You surmise correctly that many other people share this dilemma, or a similar one. |