I don't want to belittle their bravery, but for real courage in the face of danger they should try teaching a Chinese woman how to drive a car.

Don't disparage her attempts to become an actress.

My colleague has adamantly refused, as she sees this as a downgrading of her skills, which she has tried very hard to build to more value-added activities.

Learn how wonderful you are, and remove the need to hurt others. Others do not have to be put down for you to feel great.

I feel clear that I am submissive, yet this man left me feeling battered and belittled.