Never allow her dominate you in any way, do not buy her drinks or hold/watch her purse for her.

Show kids that they can help, which will give them a feeling of control.

It was a good idea: Without that payoff to older SOE workers, the overhaul of China's once state-dominated economy would not have been possible.

But each of us is carrying around one of the most amazing objects ever created - and one that governs almost everything about how and why we think, feel, act and believe.

The superpower attempted to dominate over other countries.