I tease my male friends and tell them that if they really want to meet a great woman that they need to come to our conferences.

But even though I have about 20 solid Tony Robbins jokes ready to go, it turns out I don't want to make fun of him.

'I'm seeing the ex-husband on Saturday, so we don't want bruising,' she teases Brandt, smiling through the anaesthetic.

After we got our results, I had a lot of fun ribbing an intelligent friend whose Kuder recommended bricklayer as his top career choice.

Father jokingly said: Oh! Who did you have in mind?