My boss expects me to work day and night.

Amanda: But I want to lose this flab now! I went to look for a new pair of jeans last week.

You may kick yourself for not discovering this sooner.

The second maxim: many employers want to change employees to the people same like them, in fact, people most unlike you, people you most dislike, maybe the people your team most needed.

You can' t wait to spend time with each other, you start to think about your future together, and it feels like you' ve finally found "the one" - you can' t imagine your feelings for each other changing.