But I'm learning that at some point I have to say "no". It' s impossible to be part of every group, write for 10 different blogs or go to a social event every night.

Working together for two months welded them into a group.

Go to the meetings of other groups, and to places and events where people gather.

So at an emotional level there's a sense of feeling safe in a group, and part of a group, and feeling that people understand them.

We have classes and groups and hobbies.