She replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or loved one when they cry.

I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will have a shoulder to cry on when you need it.

Let others cry over small hurts, but not you.

Do not give in to your child' s whining, crying or temper tantrum, as it only reinforces the behaviour.

We, her friends, cry for her, but that is how your mother died.